>>76708199
Don't repeat that mistake. Live with them rent free until you decide to start a family. Once you move out, cut them out completely and never invite them to your wedding or show them your children, unless they write their entire wealth on you in their will.
>>76712989
Consider yourself lucky for being born a male. Now don't stop until you are chiseled. Consider TRT if you have low test. At 40s you can stil date 30-35 year olds and hopefully father some children.