>>83044735
>Why do female fetishes enrage the men here so much?
for me it isn't even about the dom/sub stuff, it's just about the unequal division of emotional labor in the relationship
just reverse the genders and see how it makes you feel
Imagine if the sexuality of 99+% of men revolved around you, the woman, going through a bunch of effort to please them by doing a bunch of dom stuff, all while they just lay there and do nothing. And also imagine if men weren't even all that attracted to the female body, and just viewed the female body as a tool for getting off
and now also imagine if men basically never got spontaneously horny, and you had to invest significant time and energy into turning them on every time you want to have sex
how would a world like that make you feel? Would you feel like men were contributing fairly to sex?
or would you feel like you're doing all the work and that men are being selfish