I posted a bit back about how i found out my girlfriend was deeply involved with Amway


>goes to conferences all the time
>spends time on conference calls when i visit (we are long distance)
>tried to recruit my friends without telling me
>tries to make time for her mentors even during times like Thanksgiving and our anniversary


Recently when I asked what she was up to over the weekend, she said she was "hanging with a friend". I found out from a mutual friend that her mentors were visiting her and they were running a big amway event out of her apartment. I confronted her about lying to me


>she says she hides it from me because im too "negative" about her business
>i bring up that 99% dont make money in MLMs, she says her mentors know the correct way to do it
>she says her 30 year old mentor couple is ready to retire and is helping her just to be nice (!!!!!!)
>she goes to them for financial advice, life advice, etc
>she feels rejected by me becuase im critical of her "business"
>wishes i would do it because shes in it for our relationship and our kids if we have them


What the fuck do i do now? I want nothing to do with Amway but she wont compromise, not even skipping a call for our anniversary. I love her so so so much and she says she needs me but i just dont know what to do anymore. It feels like im competing with her mentors for influence.