You have to believe you are a winner. Easier said than done. It is hardwired in our DNA. Anyone can become the “alpha” (I know this concept has been largely debunked, but just think of it as winners vs losers). You need the mind of a winner to win. Winners know they are the best. It’s not about ego, it’s alignment and affirmation.
Nobody will reply to this post, and people will continue to talk about jerking off to symbols. Get a grip.