>>49822056
I want to give you a real answer but I honestly don't have time to get into it right now. I'd end up writing an essay on the subject. To make a super TLDR; answer, just be a genuine and good person that cares about your partner and you should be good! It's simple but nowadays it's hard to find people like that, male or female.
>>49822184
Oh, he's not allowed to masturbate at all so I'd be grumpy about it no matter if it was flat Kosuzu or fat hairy Keiki. Masturbation in relationships is never good, you should save all sexual energy for your partner and unleash it on them. If you're not having sex and masturbating out of being sexually frustrated, then you shouldn't be with that person if sex is important to you. As for the lolicon question, they do not disgust me, but... it is a difficult scenario, isn't it? What kind of lolicon? "Loli" is a broad brush. Are they looking at toddlercon or do they only like hebes? Do you want to have kids, if so, are you comfortable having your kids around someone that looks at drawn porn of little children? Would you be comfortable having your little son be around a girl that is obsessed with shota rape, for example? Would you trust that she can keep fantasy in the land of fantasy, and understand that reality is separate? I think as long as you're not being completely egregious about it, then it's probably fine if you aren't interested in having kids, but I wouldn't want to have a family with a lolicon personally. Plenty of people simply consume porn and leave it at that, it only gets dangerous when someone want to make extreme fantasy porn into reality. Those sorts of people should probably be avoided at all costs. Hentai should stay hentai, real life should stay wholesome and monogamous. It's hard to know of your hardcore lolicon bf is just a quirky autistic dork with a heavy preference for flats or would actually rape and kill a kid, and I think most otaku women would rather be safe than sorry when kids are involved.