the secret to repping is getting obsessed with ONE thing your whole life. the more specific, the better.
be it philosophy, mathematics, geopolitics, or building model kits of japanese mechas, having something mildly productive to look forward to besides compulsively checking your reflection helps. it's theurapeutic.
also, just stop caring.
i think most of you have felt the relief from this torment at some point. one day, you just stop giving a shit about how you look. you know you're a man, and you're fine with it. you just can't be bothered to feel anything.
odds are it didn't last very long.
try to think of that time and feel your emotions at that point, and try to return there. it helps when my mood is out of whack, it might work when the troon urges are horrific and cruel.
also, try thinking of your body as more of a tool, rather than the totality of "you". it's an instrument that can manipulate the enviroment around you and it houses your consciousness.
nothing more.
i think of my body like a character from a role playing game. not the build i wanted, but the stats are already written, so i gotta go with the flow and make something cool with what i have.
maybe this helps some of you
no idea how long this dgaf enlightened attitude will last, so might as well use it and post something mildly useful now lol