Why do people act like your 20s are supposed to be some wild time full of fun, partying, and living free? What is the actual logic behind people who think like this, because I’ve never really had any desire for it. Where did this mentality come from because most people didn't spend their 20s drinking and hooking up with people and its weirder that its now become some sort of litmus test or trial for whether a person is "normal".