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>What's your part in that? Do you get them in the mood?
I am patient and tell them to only do things that they are comfortable with me. If they are virgins I tell them what they should do to make the experience less difficult for them. I reassure and validate them while expressing my desire. They tend to react positively over text and video calls for example and even at the start of relationships but they slowly seem to lose interest in irl sex entirely as a concept, even with others.
>entitled and insecure.
Why? This has happened over multiple years-long interactions with others. I don't randomly meetup for sex, nor do I say this after just weeks of this interaction. They know that I want to have sex and it's not like they aren't attracted to me physically. What could possibly turn a person off so much that they refuse to even discuss it when I constantly try to validate and please them in turn?
