I've been dealing with this BPD chick for a while now. I've dated them before but this one was in therapy when we met so I got suckered in. I know,im a fool. But I must ask whats going on? We use to talk consistently all the time and lately shes been pulling away. I offered a date, she gave me some possible reasons she may not be able to go, but then said she'd let me know. I haven't reached out at all and its at the point where if I dont reach out, it feels like we'll just never speak again. Chances are she won't "let me know", but I'm still at a loss. I keep telling myself that she's different when in reality she isn't, although she is significantly more pleasant and appealing than my 2 BPDemon exes. We haven't even fucked yet, Am I just being stupid?