>>82253736
Yeah sure I mean, for better or worse, life is chaos, but it's retarded to cuck yourself out of a love life because of something that happens to an insignificant percentage of the populace.
>>82253743
I don't need to tell myself anything, I've witnessed and experienced enough to know. I was a khhv until my late 20s then bagged a gf a decade younger than me. Then we broke up after a few years together. Of course it makes it difficult to stumble upon anything worthwhile if you stay locked inside hopelessly doomscrolling indonesian plastic recycling forums. But things are never secured and usually they aren't doomed either. Ideally you want to be ready to grab opportunities as they fly within your reach, without any expectations.