>>33518001
Anon my family was dead by the time I was 19, and I've watched way too much porn in my life. I'll try and help you out, please read what I've written.
First of all, nobody wants to hear this but you can't tell a woman anything too deeply emotional if you want the relationship to last. This isn't a joke or a HURRR RED PILL DUUURRR thing, it's just reality. The fantasy of an unconditionally loving, supporting wife/girlfriend like you were raised to believe in does not exist. We are animals and women will only love you up to a certain point. After that it's only a select few men that will understand what you're going through, and ultimately at the end of that road it's just you.
I know two men that were raped as kids. Guess what happened the first two times they tried to open up to a partner about it? Gone each time. They stopped telling women about it, now they're in long-term relationships. Believe me, I know about this. It's awful but that's reality.
But here is the practical advice you need. To break a bad habit, the best thing you can do is to add, not subtract. Replace the bad habit slowly. If you try to quit porn you're going to obsess about it and then go back to watching it, and feel like a piece of shit for relapsing. Here is the advice nobody else would give you: Watch porn whenever you want, then clean your apartment. Watch porn whenever you want, then workout. Watch porn whenever you want, then cook some healthy meals for later. Try to watch softcore porn, whenever you want. Don't fight it at first, cum whenever you fucking want, watching Japanese women frolicking in bathing suits or whatever, then go back to doing your chores or other important work.
Eventually you'll reach a point where the addiction is manageable, and you can continue from there. So instead of watching porn whenever you want, give yourself a daily schedule when you let yourself watch it. Then only a few times a week. Does this sound retarded? Try it anyway.
