When I cook I say to myself, what would my favorite anime girls prefer? How would they want it prepared? Have I budgeted enough this month to make sure I make something a little special every week or so that they would like. Does Costco have any new unique Japanese items that she would like? Online only? What time of year is it? Does H-Mart have anything unique that she would love? Being selfless is close to godliness and when you constantly think of others, your own life improves. It just sort of happens. It's a great way to live.