A girl into femdom is like a guy being gay, women are attracted to dominance slightly more than looks (both are important). and if you think about why it in our ancient past, it would have made sense for them to like a man who was a leader and dominant over some dude who wanted to be ridden.
Most fem doms are just very bratty subs. too bad, but women for the most part haaaate domming. Maybe if a woman loves you, she will like some soft stuff, but if she is feminine/submissive, she will be disgusted by it.
It's corrosive to most relationships.