Thread 82380466

Are girls into femdom as much as guys are?

>>82380466 (OP)
>Are girls into femdom as much as guys are?
they like to dominate you socially but not in the bedroom

>>82380466 (OP)
They love bossing around. You WILL take them on a date and pay for it. You WILL massage her without expecting sex. You WILL see her as more important than yourself. You WILL have sex only according to how she likes it.

>>82380489
why cant femdom be like this instead of moids acting like troons?

>>82380499
It's the average heterosexual relationship. Well aside from the massage part because men will try.

>>82380499
because there's no subversion, it's just the usual dynamics

>>82380466 (OP)
can we take the time to cherish the fact foids die from abuse chad everyday and go through domestic violence because her twat chose a man that is hostile and thought she could control him by acting like a manic bitch and so he slapped her into place

>>82380466 (OP)
anon, just slap the bitch its their best adhd medicine. femdom is a coping mechanism. once you arent afraid to slap your bitch you wont need to desire femdom.

>>82380506
>Be daddy dom
>Need permission to cum on her face
Giant larp

>>82380466 (OP)
no, i think its an indicator hes a coomer and he wont respect me at all

>>82380466 (OP)
i am very into the idea of raping men but i have never met a moid irl who is open to the idea so the answer is no, you would be hard pressed to find a single one who is not only okay with getting abused in bed but actively enjoys it. men cannot handle the pain and humiliation at all. if a moid let me have my way with him i would make him cry like a bitch but he would love it. they are just not open to the idea because muh masculinity, how can i be a real man and enjoy getting beaten and raped by a woman? oh no.

>>82380609
>enjoy getting beaten and raped by a woman
would you peg me?

>>82380489
trvth.
In s&m its accepted that it's the sub who has all the real power despite pretense to the contrary.
The social dynamic of that isn't much different. Women are really in charge but they pretend like they aren't.

>>82380499
I think femdom as a thing arises due to men perhaps noticing a bit too much and developing a complex around it. At least that's how it went for me. I've never talked to a guy into femdom who wasn't at least a little blackpilled on women. The entire thing gets eroticized and ingrained into your sexual identity and then you're kind of stuck with it.

Not unless there's something wrong with their hormones

>>82380614
yes, but in a rapey, violent way

>>82380656
Fine you'll get real tears

>>82380609
That is amazing and exactly what I want. Because I am too sensitive and it gave me a bit of a complex so I'd love a woman who would enjoy taking advantage of it. Finally I wouldn't have to hold back tears, moans, gasps, panting, stuttering, I would finally be able to let out all my emotions and she'd get off them. Also cowgirl looks very intimate and amazing

Role reversal femdom with a tomboy gf who pegs you and princess-carries you? Forget it.
But... traditional femdom with a pillow princess who makes you her knight and you have to carry her around and pay for all her stuff and carry her bags during shopping and worship her body and only have sex when she wants it, ignoring your wants and your orgasm? Yeah very achievable.

>>82380466 (OP)
I wouldn't know, but I'm sick of hearing people wanting to get pegged. It's gay, so just go for the real thing at that point. Fuck, I need a woman to step on me

>>82380762
Boys are icky. My bussy is for girls only.

>>82380768
Go choke on dildo then

A girl into femdom is like a guy being gay, women are attracted to dominance slightly more than looks (both are important). and if you think about why it in our ancient past, it would have made sense for them to like a man who was a leader and dominant over some dude who wanted to be ridden.

Most fem doms are just very bratty subs. too bad, but women for the most part haaaate domming. Maybe if a woman loves you, she will like some soft stuff, but if she is feminine/submissive, she will be disgusted by it.

It's corrosive to most relationships.

>>82380466 (OP)
I also like racial femdom

>Little boys who have never fucked telling ghost stories about what women may or may not be into sexually episode 27372
Ebin

>>82380787
Only if it's wielded by a woman :3

>>82380936
You mean like white boys worshipping black butts or like slavic boys licking the boots of aryan girls in uniforms?

Femdom as a man is healthy. It protects you from divorce rape.

Women dont like femdom, they just want to be raped

Pegging disgusts me, I am not into this troon adjacent fetish like sissy or cock locking and with femdom it's always some disgusting thing like those instead of >>82380489 at least findom sounds fun not only because of getting free things but because I like the idea of ruining a man financially and all because of me

>>82381228
Yeah, because you aren't a dominant woman, you just want free money for existing, retarded nigger.

>>82381280
If makes you happy, reading this made me want to punch you

>>82380466 (OP)
Nobody is actually into femdom its just kind of what you get if you fuck a stupid girl

>>82380499
that is what I expect out of it
maybe some forced oral on her, kissing her feet and worshipping someone I completely am infatuated with and obsessed with
what did you expect, that I want to be fucked in the ass?

>>82381228
You're reading closeted faggots talk about their fantasies
Not men

>>82380466 (OP)
i have the tamest femdom fantasies ever and i still cannot find a moidslave who would be willing to indulge
>face sitting
>human dildo
>slapping
>light choking
>light bondage
>mild cock and ball torture
if i bring any of this up, you can bet he is running

>>82381554
That's hot I would to slap moids but it's always pegging and always chastity and crossdressing

imagine a woman choking you between her thighs and riding your face like a saddle until you pass out hahaha
kinda gay right, hah, only faggots would enjoy that

>>82381567
i am not into pegging and chastity because they don't make me cum, crossdressing is not aesthetically appealing to me. i think having a sex slave that you turn into an object for your pleasure, a human dildo is so much hotter

>>82381015
like asian (chinese, korean, jap) boys being femdommed by white nazi girls or something

>>82381554
That's literally all of them though, what are you talking about?
Bring them up to them

>>82381554
>>82381614
oh, I misread because I'm retarded
Who the fuck are you even talking to?
You're not talking to subs anyways, I assure you
You shouldn't be asking them anyways, you should be telling them

>>82381554
would but only if you'd pee on me

>>82381673
it is impossible to bring this up to regular moids thus you are unable to find anyone as a woman who wants a slave

My girl wants to torture me until I cry. It's not really about the focus on the man for women's femdom, it's purely about them. Which is fine, I don't mind it. A lot of femdom porn focuses on how to torture the guy and the woman is almost given a backseat in the sense that she's just a Dominatrix and nothing else, existing just for the pleasure-pain of men.

I dunno. Women are into it is my point

>>82381788
I mean there's masochists who get off to that but I'd only do it if she told me that's what she wanted to do to me and enjoyed it
It is entirely the point of it in that respect
There's different dynamics in the very thing you're talking about, I'm sure women get off on watching and self inserting as the woman, and men get off on self inserting as the guy getting his whatever crushed or beaten and slapped

>>82381554
Personally I'd be game for all of it, minus the cock and ball torture probably. Depends on what you mean by light.

But I also don't do casual sex or like girls that talk about it before bringing up marriage so I might never get any of that. Oh well.

>>82380466 (OP)
No, none of them are

>>82381887
i like to smack, edge, overstimulate and milk cock and balls. it's nice that you prefer marriage over casual sex. i have personally never considered marriage because i cannot see myself ever marrying a man who would not be my sex slave, and i will never find him so forever alone it is.

>>82381991
>like to smack
You talking like a light smack or rearing back and whacking the shit out of it?

In theory that sounds cool, but sex can't really be the primary focus of a relationship, it's unhealthy.

Sex is fun and cool and I'd even argue a necessary function of the relationship, but like I would have to be friends with her. Like, if hypothetically she didn't have any attractive or sexual features, I would still have to emotionally and mentally desire her presence.

>>82380639
>The entire thing gets eroticized and ingrained into your sexual identity and then you're kind of stuck with it.
Preach

i'm literally too shy to talk about what I would do for someone who owned me, which is everything, it just makes me get all fluttery, the idea to just do as she commands and eventually know what she commands just with a look

>>82382028
i mean light enjoyable smacking, i am not a barbarian and don't want to break my toy. i don't expect my moidslave to be a slave 24/7, it's just a sexual thing. we can be friends outside of it.

>>82382065
As long as it's just the bedroom part of the relationship that actually sounds like it would be nice.

Would it be 100% femdom or would switching be a thing?

>>82381991
Don't forget to bite it

>>82382096
100%. i don't believe in switching.
>>82382334
i would do it if he could handle it, most moids whine about muh toothy blowjobs so it would be hot if he enjoys it.

I started talking to someone who said they wanted that and it gets more and more distant, I feel like I disappointed her and that hurts my heart and I get more closed off and she gets more closed off, maybe she's just busy but I'm socially retarded and shy and withdrawn, I wish I weren't such a fuckup

I used to extensively work on my appearance in hopes of becoming the ideal man so I could advertise myself to dommes.
However I learned that I cannot be attractive. At least, not without extensive cosmetic surgery.
Idk what to do now

>>82380466 (OP)
If you call it "femdom" and are really like strong about it at the start you will scare away most women.
In my experience with my gf who is pretty normie you have to like be very slow with it. I started off by like acting like I have no weird fetishes and are very vanilla. When she asked for a fetish I said glasses at the beginning of the relationship for example. Then you have to slowly bring up slightly femdom things without being too over the top with it. I started with wanting to eat her out a lot which she enjoyed and from that I suggested facesitting and she rather enjoyed it.
Another good strategy is to do things on her first. One day I basically took charge and tied her up and blindfolded her and teased her for a long time. She really really enjoyed it and was shocked and slightly embarrassed that she was so turned on by it. She began suggesting that she get to try it on me so that I can experience it.
I'm not into extremely weird stuff though so for me this + the teasing she does where she won't let me touch her is fun enough for me. The other day she brought up that the male g spot was in the ass and she wanted to try something with that. That being said I'm like not really into that so I was a bit hesitant.

Asking a girl to dom you is a cheat button for your ejection seat from the relationship. Try it if you ever need to escape a woman.

>>82382374
>>82382417
Where do you guys find dominant women? I never see any outside of ewhores online who are clearly doing it for money. I wish I had a gf who is a real sadist.

>>82382373
>don't believe in switching
Awww... being on top is nice sometimes though

>>82382445
Find a normal girl and then slowly get her into the fetish you like.
The more extreme the fetish the more time you need to spend building up to it.

>>82382373
>100%. I don't believe in switching
Basado.
When receiving oral or sitting on a face, do you just want your pussy to be ate? Or would you like having your ass eaten too?

>>82382476
my main preference is having my pussy licked but i like having my ass worshipped too. i enjoy all sorts of body worship. my body should be kissed everywhere.

>>82382536
I like the idea of a spoiled needy girl who demands oral daily. Maybe we're watching a movie and she throws a pillow on the ground in front of the sofa, spreads her legs and points. Or we're kissing and she grabs my hair and starts to force my head down. Or she wakes me up 30 minutes too early so I can pleasure her before we get up. How does it feel to get licked? Do you cum quickly or does it take a lot of effort on his part? I don't know which is hotter. Also I presume my dick would throb and flop while being ignored.

>>82380466 (OP)
If your gf can dom you, you must be a manlet. Youre suppose to be able to lift it from the floor and attach to your head.

>>82382600
>If your gf can dom you, you must be a manlet.
i didn't choose to be 5'7

>>82382445
Date a circumciser. They enjoy inflicting genuine pain onto males

>>82382614
You should wear skirts and kneel toed boots and panties while masturbating. It feels so good to look cute.

>>82382578
it is by far the most pleasurable sensation possible. it feels so good that it doesn't take a lot for me to cum from it. a tongue flicking on your clit is total heaven.

>>82382640
>It feels so good to look cute
I look like a normal guy tho (just in small)

>>82382674
You should talk to your doctor about getting trans surgery to remove your penis. Just start by brushing your hair every day and telling yourself how pretty youre becoming. Youre turning into a cute girl and the doctor is going to turn your penis inside out.

>>82382640
>>82382695
>You should wear skirts and kneel toed boots and panties while masturbating. It feels so good to look cute.
Sadly at 5'8" I have more hair on my chest than bigfoot, calfs like a grapefruit and forearms like hams and bench, squat and DL more than you, faggot, I WILL get my goddess to worship

>>82382670
That's wonderful! I want to bring a woman to such heights of pleasure, get her addicted to my mouth. Would you like to receive it daily, or less, or more often?

>>82382670
Honestly I think I miss giving oral as much as I do sex. I just liked making my girl happy. Knowing she liked it gave me butterflies

>>82382716
i would use my slave's mouth or dick whenever i am horny, meaning almost every day.

>>82382712
Girls love post op surgery. If you talk to your doctor and get your foot in the door, youll have a suave chance to find a girlfriend who loves your new inside out penis. Its a zoomer girl thing, they think trans people are so cool and they love to date post op men who had their penises removed.

>>82382758
Your slave will be very lucky! If you could train your dildo when to cum, would you let him cum while you fuck him? Or keep him on edge and fuck him until you're satisfied.

My fantasy is being so good at eating pussy that my lady wants it more and more and indulges herself in sexual greed

>>82382712
this is the attractive malesub mindset
>>82382767
fuck off tranny, as a woman who wants to rape men, i want MEN. trannies are an ugly abomination. stop ruining femdom with your bullshit.

>>82382778
my pleasure is always the first priority. a dildo is not supposed to go soft. he has to learn to last until i cum, or at least synchronize our orgasms. anything earlier than me would be a failure.

You retards realize you're only interacting with males pretending to be females in this thread?

>>82382875
i am a woman and i want to rape men retard we exist

>>82382799
"orally needy' women are the best. Imagine cunnilingus becomes your primary sexual act and she fucks your face like its a toy.
>>82382840
You'll have to teach him some harsh discipline and self-control. It must be very difficult to be on edge and instead of bursting inside, pull out, put your erect cock on top of her belly and wait for permission to cum...

>>82381554
>>82381585
So I can't earn a pegging no matter how good of a boy I am? :'(

Or imagine your wife comes home from work (maybe works longer hours than you) and you have dinner ready and bring it and wine/beer so she can eat on the sofa while watching the TV and while you eat her out

>>82382925
We pegcels can only suffer

>>82382640
i'll beat the shit out of you instead, how about that faggot

>>82382976
Damn that would probably make me cum extremely hard. Do you want to rape my ass too daddy? Please punch my head and rape my puckered boypussy daddy please rape me harder.

>>82382894
For me, I love the taste and smell. Another fantasy of mine is that I'm tied down in bondage on the bed, and she casually drapes her worn panties over my face while she goes to take a shower or something like that.
I'm trapped inhaling her scent for as long as she decides to leave me there.

can someone explain why you're not allowed to post contact in r9k. if it's a board for forever alone incels how are they supposed to meet someone if you can't post contact here

>>82383010
no one wants you being mentally ill and spreading fag diseases everywhere. you should be gassed. go to some thread where you can talk about your lifestyle where your anus prolapses and you're incontinent for life, you disgusting abomination.

>>82383043
>can someone explain why you're not allowed to post contact in r9k
You can (at least in threads) you'll only get banned if you create your own thread

>>82383044
You will cum in my ass. You will rape me in my dress and brag to all your online friends about your legendary mount more awesome than an ashes of alar.

Why are faggots so jealous of this?

>>82381594
that's my dream, but the few white women i've talked to in korea have all been no fun bland beckies
i've learned from this site that koreaboos are mentally unstable, but all the women who come to korea seem to be "normal"
ofc maybe that's just because i'm a boring virgin and they'll change in front of chad but still i don't see any white women with the fetishist aura to make my dreams come true

>>82380609
This is literally what I want. WTF Make me cry please. Im a shy about sex choir boy please break me.

"muh masculinity" is a cope because most men are playacting at being a man. Its why its so commercialized. "dude wipes" "BRO YOU GOTTA SHOOT WHISKEY BRO, COCKTAILS ARE FOR HOMOS" ect ect. Low Iq behavior with no class.

Repression in both action and desire, must be thrown to the wind in order to live fully.

So please rape me, pursuit of ones destiny is freedom and all that.

>>82380466 (OP)
yes, women are into being dominated by women just like guys are.

>>82380609
Do you think Indians wait until they find women who are "into being raped"?

>>82383718
>Do you think Indians wait until they find women who are "into being raped"?
depends what caste they are tbqh

>>82383134
I'd never speak again except to whimper and moan like she enjoys

>>82384854
They're all dalits

>>82380466 (OP)
im chubby and have thick thighs and double d tits and all i want is a twink that i can shove his face into my tits and sit on him until he tries to push me off, and make him drink my pee when i have to go, maybe tie him up and tease him for hours until hes begging me me to stop and that it hurts, only thing tho i dont want him to enjoy it and i want him to hate it so much, if he likes it i think it would turn me off

>>82380466 (OP)
No. I'm a male sub and every girl I've dated or had sex with (8+) has been submissive, even the ones who are "switches" or are "interested in domming", they just all want to be spanked and fucked rough. It's so boring

It only really does anything for me when I'm high. Usually I'm just doing it because my boyfriend likes it but I get really into it when I'm high. So now he pays for my weed.

>>82385419
>tfw no weed-crazed rapist gf

>>82386284
I'm really more of a weed-crazed bully gf. He likes humiliation and being "forced" to do things. The weed just makes it really fun for me.

>>82385068
1/8 would still be high. I doubt 1/8 men are submissive, people are too vocal on the internet
dominant women definitely exist and i know because i'm one and i've met multiple girls who are

>>82386316
>>82385419
That's cute and wholesome, giwtwm

>>82380466 (OP)
Of course not. I don't know why guys want girls to be copies of themselves.
>She needs to be a gaymer like me!
>She needs to be socially retarded like me!
>She needs to have race and politics as a substitute for personality like me!
>She needs to be a pedo like me!
Stop, it's repulsive.

>>82386330
Where do they congregate and how do I make myself appealing to them? I'm not obsessed with any particular fetish as long as she's bossy and possesive and likes cunnilingus.

>>82386358
my answer to both of those questions is i don't know, i don't have enough experience to answer them. i guess just be attractive in general?

>>82386337
It's very sweet how he gets after he, uh, "finishes". Sometimes the play can get pretty intense and he'll need what I guess is aftercare? Just reassuring him that it was all just part of the act.

>>82386406
You know, you don't have to let him finish.... do you just say mean things to him, or also hurt him physically like slapping, stepping, scratching choking?

>>82386486
>You know, you don't have to let him finish
I know. Sometimes I don't. Last time I had to travel for work I edged him for a while and then put him in a cage. The cage was his idea but not letting him finish first was mine.
>or also hurt him physically like slapping, stepping, scratching choking?
Not really something we do.

>>82386607
>I know. Sometimes I don't. Last time I had to travel for work I edged him for a while and then put him in a cage. The cage was his idea but not letting him finish first was mine.
Ahhh, he's living the dream! Make sure to wear his key between your breasts! Maybe send him pics of you while he's locked!
>Not really something we do.
Oh, so it's pure mental domination.