Why do men blame women no matter whom they choose as a partner? If women look out for a man being 6 foot tall and having a six figure income, men complain that their standards are "unrealistic" and "unfair".

When a woman then has kids with some man, other men will complain that she choose the wrong man, whose genetics made their kids short, dumb and too "dark" (yeah, that's still a thing in colorist circles).

It's really a catch 22 for a woman choosing a partner, you incels will complain no matter what.