I would like to understand it more. I have a gripe with lesbians because more lesbians means fewer male-female (yin-yang) pairings are possible.
This gripe arises from the following thoughts:
>men can't just go gay whereas every woman has a bit of lesbian in them
this is more to say that lesbianism isn't as real of a "break" in mindset as gay men. Gay men are fundamentally different from their straight counterpart whereas lesbian women aren't.
>lesbians often just seem to hate men
they want intimacy like everyone else, and because of aforementioned point they can fill that gap with another woman without having to make any effort in learning about and accepting the opposite gender of which they are afraid.
basically they are the female version of incels in the sense that they never managed to form a healthy view and connection to the opposite gender. again the difference being that incels can't just turn gay whereas they can.
ironically, the incel is at least aware of this problem whereas lesbians drank the LGBT koolaid that tells them what they're doing is not maladjusted.
this issue is affecting me personally, i suffer from every lesbian existing because it means 2 less women are available for yin-yang pairings which are the only way to find order and peace in this universe.