>>33476210
Break up with him and stop wasting *HIS* time, because you seem like a shallow individual who cares much more about being seen with someone than actually being with someone. You're not a particularly good person, therefore deep down you shouldn't really care how messy it's going to be or how hard it will be for him, unless YOU don't want to be perceived as a bad person by your "friends".
>I hate how much of spineless person he is
>because of my empathy. I want to spare his feelings.
Empathy also means understanding and accepting someone's weakness. You literally HATE him for his weakness. How incredibly self-delusional of you, assuming that you possess something you don't have even in the slightest.

Now scram.