Thread 33476210

I would vent on reddit for advice but I think they'll ban me
I hate my boyfriend. Everyday I feel I am wasting my life with him, all the good attractive men were taken, he at least had money, cleans the house to make up for it.
But I hate how mediocre he looks
He short when I wear heels
He looks like a fucking rat
I hate when I have to be seen with him when we go out
I hate that my friends and I know I could've done better if I just waited for the right man
I hate how much of spineless person he is. I will intentionally try to make him angry but he always forgives me
It's almost disgusting he knows if I break up with tomorrow he will cry his eyes out.

But because of my empathy. I want to spare his feelings.

>>33476210 (OP)
Just break up with him, my goodness, just leave

>He looks like a fucking rat
On a scale of 1-11 how much of a rat he looking like mildly rat-like or a literal RAT?

>>33476210 (OP)
Time is the most valuable thing any of us has. It's not worth wasting your time with a guy who doesnt make you happy. And it sounds like this guy cant make you happy. Do what you need to do to find the right person for you. And the best you can do for the guy youre dating now is, when it comes time to leave him, be firm and just make it clear to him why you're leaving him

>>33476210 (OP)
Imagine that your bf is an animal.
Imagine your life before your ever knew your bf.
Now you know that there is no reason to wait to not hurt him. Hurting is part of life and you already don't like him
Imagine that he is dying of cancer but you just don't want to tell him. Rip that band aid.

If it makes it easier, imagine that your bf just destroyed your favourite toy.

>>33476210 (OP)
Break up with him and stop wasting *HIS* time, because you seem like a shallow individual who cares much more about being seen with someone than actually being with someone. You're not a particularly good person, therefore deep down you shouldn't really care how messy it's going to be or how hard it will be for him, unless YOU don't want to be perceived as a bad person by your "friends".
>I hate how much of spineless person he is
>because of my empathy. I want to spare his feelings.
Empathy also means understanding and accepting someone's weakness. You literally HATE him for his weakness. How incredibly self-delusional of you, assuming that you possess something you don't have even in the slightest.

Now scram.

anyone genuinely replying to this bait is the dumbest faggot alive.

>>33476210 (OP)
go to hell Lindsey

>>33476210 (OP)
First off, you're a real pos for even wasting someone's time like that. Why do you people do that? Why do you sit in relationships with people you don't even like? Especially when they don't feel the same that's even worse. Only a horrible person would do what you're doing. You need to leave and I hope no one ever loves you and you stay miserable cause that's what you deserve. People like you don't deserve a good relationship or love.

>>33476210 (OP)
>my empathy
my sides

>>33476210 (OP)
This is made-up silliness posted by some troll who has nothing better to do on a warm Friday evening. Pathetic.

>>33476210 (OP)
You sound like you actually hate yourself. I hope he's been secretly sleeping with your mum, i heard hes way more emotionally and mentally attracted to her. Shes more mature & loving & has real scars from living life, more appreciative and she still looks like you, only finer & more matured. I bet she would sleep with him, seeing as how fucking ungrateful & apathetic & immature & unexpierenced you sound. I bet you make her cry her eyes out every night for raising such a shitty, fucked up daughter. I bet your dad divorced her, not because he hates her, but because he cant stand you. And i hope your bf slept with every other woman you're in close relations with, i bet they all secretly would betray you & fuck his brains out, considering how shitty of a person you are & how you constantly advertise it every fucking day to the world. Hes just using you to get more pussy at this point, and the women your close with all have hinted they were dtf, so he likely isnt ugly at all. Only real reason he keeps forgiving you is because of that. My God how incredibly shallow and self absorbed do you have to be to still stay with him & have the nerve to post something like this. I bet you look like a deformed, demonic bat.

i've told my gf she doesn't really do it for me but im in it out of principle and practicality and she said that's good enough for her and she appreciates the honesty. we've been together 7 years

>>33476726
same here but not out of principle or practicality, but revenge.

>>33476210 (OP)
>2025
>woman
>empathy
lmao lol

>>33476780
>2025
>posting frogs
>ugh

I stayed with a guy I wasn't attracted to way too long and wasted my entire 20's with him. I didn't even get good sex LOL. Please leave OP I am screaming for you to do it with my entire soul. You are better off single than with a bf you hate

>>33476210 (OP)
>I feel bad I want to spare his feelings

So hes in a relationship with someone who hates him and hes living a lie? No you dont care about him or his feelings, no it isnt empathy.
Youre afraid of conflict and youre sparing *yourself* the discomfort of having a conversation about it.
Don't lie to yourself. Youre not doing this for him. Its all for you.

>>33476820
This. Im a guy and i agree. Your a bum & a coward for not telling him how you feel.

>>33476845
It's going to hurt even worse when she leaves and he doesn't fight for her after she stays x years as a martyr in her own retarded head. For real

>>33476210 (OP)
You sound like you bring out the absolute worst in everyone you come in contact with. Its apparant by all the responses on this post, and all the other shitty posts you make. Go back to plebbit & fish for betas. Nobody wanna hear your female period barf. Stop shitting up the board with these posts. Your not a 4channer, just a failed normie roastie.
>inb4 spam

>>33476899
Yeah. Women think so highly of themselves & break their own hearts when reality shatters their delusions, then go and fish for betas for a quick self soothe. Should just be honest about their shitty behavior from the gate.

You people are so easily baited holy shit

>>33476951
Nice try to save yourself. We know you were serious.

>>33476951
ye, because I love being master baited

>>33476958
I’m not OP

>>33476210 (OP)
You hate that he's your true match, and you're afraid of more assertive men who are capable of hurting your ego. He's secure enough with himself not to feel the need to be rankled by your absolute cuntery or to bow to it by conforming to your ideal of masculine looks or behavior. He'll laugh if you break up with him.

>>33476371
this