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I'm blackpilled a little bit, but I still believe I can improve myself. The one thing that separates me from being an incel is that I understand that in order for a woman to find me desirable I have to make myself seem like an attractive option to her. Most incels either fail to grasp this concept completely (probably because they're autistic and can't view themselves from the perspective of others) or fall into the pit of thinking attractiveness is all about looks. You can be attractive simply by not being a creepy loser. Part of me believes incels know this deep down but are too timid to try for fear of how they'll be perceived, hence why so much incel propaganda relies around dispelling the "myth" that guys who don't look like models will be creepy no matter what. Literally just smile more, talk to people, and have hobbies that aren't video games and watching anime and you're fine.

The blackpill in me comes from using dating apps. I didn't want to, but my friends forced me into it. I used them for about a month before deleting everything. Those apps are disgusting and I can understand why it makes incels think dating is all about physical attractiveness. They're literally catalogues of men/women to flip through. It's dehumanizing.