It's no different from a girl bullying a guy just to get his attention.
Literally had a girl bully me through my early high school years, she moved away, and then years later when she was back in town she apologized because she had the hots for me.
To be honest, I dodged a bullet, these sorts of foids should be avoided at all costs.

A woman should help you if she wants to know you, not cause problems for you.