>>520695328
Allow me to clue you into why.
You work all day, you come home and the first and last thing you hear is that she's tired and she needs/wants help.
She feels sick. She feels upset.
She feels feels feels feels, she'll tell you how she feels. You feel bad, right? You should feel bad your wife feels bad, it means you failed. You failed to keep her happy.
What do you do? You try everything to keep her happy, keep her energized, try to do more despite feeling like all she has to ever fucking do is walk around and basically keep them from killing themselves. You start wondering why this seems so difficult for her to do, you have to work a full day, come back and finish her job so she can "take a break." Meanwhile you have a 30 year mortgage, a few car payments..
Dude probably got tired of having to deal with the kids and wanted a break himself. Literally doing everything and anything to escape the reality he finds himself trapped in.
Kids find a specific way to cry which optimizes a response and reaction. If you wife can't handle the real stress of kids she takes it out on you. So you get the benefit of all the "problems" of being a man where you're belittled at work. You get all the "problems" of staying at home because she'll trauma dump all her problems onto you. Make sure you tell her she's pretty, she's great, whatever.
No sane man could stay happy or in love in that situation. I don't blame the lack of emotion. What I blame is that he broke the commitment to his wife and children by letting them die in a car because you wanted to beat your meat.
No amount of gooning or post-nut clarity will ever be enough because your nut is now permanently associated with the death of your "lifestyle." You cum, and you're more depressed. Spiral. -> Suicide
It's a lot more fucked up once you start looking into any of the CEI/CBT hypno some of these people watch.