I HAVE to try.
Ive never really tried because my life is a mess and Im no where I want to be.
Im getting older though and Im getting impatient. Im thinking of just trying even if my life is crap. Im willing to just go on dating apps or maybe even local bars. But the thing is
>30
>work in retail, not in school, Im working towards stuff but point is, if a girl looks at my career future, its not bright
>dont have money in general
>working on getting body /fit/ but its not ideal right at this moment
>dont have my own pad, I live with friends / their parents, not sure if living with other people's parents makes it any better

I know it looks shit. But even people in prison have girlfriends. Ive seen HOMELESS people have girlfriends. Hell, the guys I live with have girlfriends, they are in better but still similar situations. I mean, surely there is some girl in just as bad spot as me that these things can be overlooked / tolerated?

Realistically my life wont be in a stable spot for another 5-10 years.
Is it worth trying? Like am I just dreaming that a girl would give me a second date after hearing about my job situation at my age?
If I wait another 10 years when my life is "fixed" I can only date walled women. I feel like I should just try while Im still somewhat young.

>>715500785
Not Asians girls. Take the Asianpill.

>>508255649
I wanted to join before all this started. This is fucking up my plans if I dont join anymore. Not sure what to do