>went on first date (met at a friend meet up before this)
>things go well
>both sitting in car before date ends
>go in for kiss because i'm an autist
>she doesn't react back and sits there, no head turning
>says she's too nervous for that right now
>apologize, continue with talking for the next 20 minutes
>try to set up 2nd date, she's busy all this week and didn't give alternatives
>tell her next week, she says maybe but she has work+parent things to take care of
>hugs me long (10?sec) before leaving the date

Did I fuck up? Is it over? I haven't dated in 9 years so I'm clueless