>>2813566
America is nightmare mode and I'm in the most nightmare mode part of America (Seattle) and I can still pull when I put the effort in. It's just too depressing and I don't bother anymore, because for all the effort the women just aren't high quality, even when they're decent looking. I'm not looking for flings. I'm looking for a decent looking woman who isn't a whore that I can hopefully form a meaningful relationship with
>but chances are they fit your disqualifiers more often than not.
If you're first response is to recommend places for a fling, then they probably are :/ Is it too late to find a good woman?

>>40031657
>Not a good look babe, go suck a dick if you want to
Not opposed if the person is clean, but ultimately it's more of an emotional starvation I'm struggling with. It feels like men are considered dispensable by the world, and I just want to find someone who treats me like a human being.
>it sounds overall like you're tired of getting pushed into the male stereotype by people you date and interact with
I grew up traditionally masculine, and honestly my hobbies and lifestyle are all still masculine. That's not what I have an issue with, but rather just not being valued as a human being. It feels like no matter what I do, it just doesn't lead anywhere or get me meaningful interactions. I can get a drunk hook up at a club, but can't get a relationship for example because the latter requires having social connections that as an introvert I just don't have.
>sorry babe, when my bi bf gets back from the shops, I'll get him to check this thread for ya
Sounds good. All input is welcome