My hair looks like pic related, it took my years but I knew if a fuck ton of girls could have nice hair then I could figure it out too. Worst part was finding info online because you have to drudge through a bunch of bullshit beauty youtubers any time you search for hair tips.
Top 3 tips:
- Hair is fragile you have to be gentle with it, don't dry it by rubbing it with a towel
- Buy expensive shampoos and conditioners, don't use all in ones
- Learn how to use a blow dryer

My girlfriend runs her fingers through my hair all the time and it is incredible