I usually use the Tom V2 "other man' mount with these. Ubbrime sells a suction cup adapter to ad a suction cup to the non-suction cup dildos so I can still use them with the mount or even my hismith. The two on the bottom right are very thick. For lube I usually start with Sliquid's Hybrid lube and then move on to Xlube. All my dildos are body safe silicone and I've never had any issue with Sliquid's Hybrid lube degrading or ruining my toys. I keep my body shaved smooth and will dress up in wigs, make-up and lingerie while getting high on edibles when using these. Unfortunately I live in a multi-generational household so I rarely get the place to myself to use them.