>>942019421
absolutely.

I always wanted to try watersports after talking at length with a woman I knew in the US (and as you may guess from "control your arse", 'm in the UK). She talked about it, not in a demeaning or degrading way a lot of stuff is, but in the idea of it being "marking" and ownership, it being loving to take her out into the countryside, find a river to be beside, and to mark her, to claim her as being loved, or her to do the same.

a little bit of me with CBT kind of wants the same - the idea of being cathetered, and either drained by a lover, as much a domme - taking control and taking ownership, or both cathetered, and sharing in that.

something to do the night before you replace a mattress and all the furniture though!