>>40856624
>when we give up on the possibility of other people kind to us that we end up being meaner ourselves
There is literally always a caveat, some little "gotcha" the cis will hold over you just in case you start expecting something too close to "fellow human being" in your interactions for *their* comfort. I've long since given up on people ever being decent to a fucking troonie like me, even if I pass well and do good for world, yet I still act with decency. Saying we can't is like saying we can't be moral without being religious.