where do I find confident tgirls?
I've been on multiple dates in the last few months with different tgirls and most of them are too awkward to do anything more than just talk to me when we go out, which most of the time I have to be the one to ask to go do, and despite flirting over text beforehand and during the date me leaving them ample opportunity to make a move, they just don't
more often than not they say they're nervous "because I'm so pretty" or "they don't wanna make me uncomfortable" or various other excuses, and yet don't even try to make a move when I'm acting like I want to or almost straight up asking for it.
I know myself that I should be more direct but at the same time I want the moment to not feel super forced either

and like most of them have autism so I'm not the most surprised that some of my flirting goes right over their heads, but even I'm severely autistic and still know how to take a hint like that eventually, so it feels beyond comical to me that its like this. and the awkwardness just become an annoyance rather than being something that's maybe cute if it happens an appropriate amount early on

I'm so tired of this, I just wanna go out with another tgirl and have her take the lead on things more, being forward all the time isn't that fun for me and depending on who its with I sort of just end up feeling like I'm acting like a 'man' in that relationship, rather than it being more 50/50 which is what I'd want things to be like
I fucking hate this t4t sucks I should just suck it up and try dating cis women, shouldn't I?

so like wtf are my options for relationships that aren't t4t?
basically every transgirl I've met and gone out with for the last year has treated me like shit, ended up leading me on or wasting my time, or ended up with somebody else and lost all interest in me cause of their 'le epic polyamory' and/or dating around, it fucking sucks. I just want somebody who will actually make me feel like they valued their time spent with me, even if it doesn't deal to relationship at all
I'm also not too interested in cis women, unless they're like, very autistic
but seriously what better options are there for us tranny lesbians? or do I just have to keep digging through shit until I find someone halfway decent?

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>What movie would you ask someone to watch in order to get them to better understand you?
scott pilgrim
>Do you have a bad habit of falling in love with the idea of someone rather than who they really are?
I've never been interested in somebody long enough to really feel that strongly about them, which I can't tell is a good thing or not, but I do wanna know what its like