there is literally no point in dating anymore. there are no benefits to dating or having romantic relationships.

it is all a 24/7 performance of having to emotionally validate and sexually perform for somebody and it never ends unless you stop trying and eventually break up/get divorced.

you got cheated on? oh well it’s your fault, should have given up more sex. you don’t want a hairy sweaty man huffing and puffing over you for 30 seconds - 2 minutes for nothing in return? you will die alone. i don’t want to be a live-in prostitute.

all of my dating and talking stage experiences have been awful. it’s a constant upkeep of trying to keep someone happy when i don’t even know how to keep myself happy. it’s like the music box from fnaf 2, you HAVE to interact with it constantly or something bad happens (you die).

i’ve never used dating apps and i never intend to but people are exactly the same in real life. i meet someone, i think they’re normal and then i get a suggestive text or they try to steer the conversation towards sex.

every. fucking. time.

i wish i could have a relationship where i am in love with my partner but he never bothers me about sex. i genuinely think i would be okay with him seeing another woman to satisfy that side of him without me being involved. is there anyway to have this kind of dynamic successfully?

i can’t look at a man the same way after he talks about sex.

also fuck the jannies who deleted my last thread. guys can complain about girls here but when it’s the other way around there’s a problem??

>american neets woke up
>its another episode of real life politics in my comfy escapist mmo

I might feel bad over myself for not having a wife by age of 35 but there is even more scary realisation - maybe I got so accustomed to being alone that, coupled with my fear of change, failure and/or rejection, I'm unable to even form a relationship and would only hurt people close to me?