>>512727406
>If there was a woman, kissless virgin, not a dude/no cock, not fat, how would they even go about finding a guy?
You would want to save your virginity for marriage because it makes you ultra high value in the dating market.

As a 6/6/6 chad, I would rather marry a 4/0 virgin than a 10/10 high body count slut.

The best place to find a quality man that will wait for sex until marriage is at church. You don't even need to do anything other than show up and be friendly. The women in the church will find available men for you to date and you choose the one you like. He'll propose within a few months because he wants sex. This is the best way for a woman to marry a chad.

Telling a man that you want to wait until marriage for sex will drive away any that are just looking for sex, which will be 80% of them but that's just clearing the field for the marriage minded men.


t. unironically tall, well paid chad, holding out for a virgin wife.

>>512051677
>I know nothing about her past and don’t see them then it’s whatever I don’t care. It just depends how close to home it is for me
This is a coping mechanism and denial. It's common, but it's not optimal to a relationship. Subconsciously. you still have the thoughts of her with others that are barriers to trust and true intimacy. I've done it. It bothered me so much that it destroyed relationships for me.

I won't marry a woman and commit my life and future happiness on the gamble that I can fool myself enough to ignore her past. I know that I'm not capable of long term denial.

>>23039132
>I know nothing about her past and don’t see them then it’s whatever I don’t care. It just depends how close to home it is for me
This is a coping mechanism and denial. It's common, but it's not optimal to a relationship. Subconsciously. you still have the thoughts of her with others that are barriers to trust and true intimacy. I've done it. It bothered me so much that it destroyed relationships for me.

I won't marry a woman and commit my life and future happiness on the gamble that I can fool myself enough to ignore her past. I know that I'm not capable of long term denial.

>>510792796
>That's irrelevant, you're one person, most guys wouldnt.
This is where religious moral frameworks come in. Christianity forbids sex outside of marriage for a practical reason. It's not just to ruin everyone's fun. It solves the hypergamy issue and increases pair bonding strength which reduces divorce rates.

Modern secularists dismiss this idea of morality as otherworldly superstition imposed by a killjoy clergy; but, in fact, Christian moral standards are the ultimate utilitarian for human conduct and the foundation of Western civilization.

“Tradition is a set of solutions for which we have forgotten the problems. Throw away the solution and you get the problem back.”
― Donald Kingsbury

>>22956217
>That's irrelevant, you're one person, most guys wouldnt.
This is where religious moral frameworks come in. Christianity forbids sex outside of marriage for a practical reason. It's not just to ruin everyone's fun. It solves the hypergamy issue and increases pair bonding strength which reduces divorce rates.

Modern secularists dismiss this idea of morality as otherworldly superstition imposed by a killjoy clergy; but, in fact, Christian moral standards are the ultimate utilitarian for human conduct and the foundation of Western civilization.

“Tradition is a set of solutions for which we have forgotten the problems. Throw away the solution and you get the problem back.”
― Donald Kingsbury

>>22942626
>so basically fucking virgins before marriage which bible is against,
Yes. The reason that the Bible prohibits sex outside of marriage is for practical reasons, not just to spoil everyone's fun. It's what works top stabilize society and provide a high quality environment for raising kids.

Tradition is what works best after thousands of years of trial and error. It's tradition because it works.

All men have to do to clean up society is to refuse to marry a non-virgin woman. The anti-cuck instinct is natural and strong in all men. Just listen to yours. It’s that simple.

Women are the gatekeepers of sex.
Men are the gatekeepers of relationships.

If women ever hope to get married and have a family, they must keep their legs closed until marriage, just like it’s been for thousands of years. Prove to them that a promiscuous lifestyle results in a future as a lonely cat lady. This solves the hypergamy issue and provides equal distribution of mates. Everyone gets a family and kids. Societal stability is increased. Jews hate this of course.

No hymen, no diamond.

>>510216831
>They will insist it's a great path and try to convince more young women to join them.
Yes. Women sabotage other women. It's like an alcoholic trying to get others to drink.

>>508744224
>How miserable is dating in your 30s?
Dating is miserable at any age.
That's why people should get married young and stay married unto death.

Jews and feminists hate this of course.

>>22866121
>How miserable is dating in your 30s?
Dating is miserable at any age.
That's why people should get married young and stay married unto death.

Jews and feminists hate this of course.