am I just biased or is "don't stay together just for the kids" incredibly backwards and selfish advice for anyone that isn't a shitskin that impregnated some whore during a one night stand? Bringing such a complicated life form into the world that needs a present mother and father figure is delicate work and getting a divorce because you are both too weak to admit you need therapy is pretty pathetic as far as I can tell when the stakes are "maladjusted, miserable child" or "happy child"

I can't imagine this is a very unpopular opinion but whatever