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>>41001752
>>41008322
>Not necessarily I think, depends when and where I ask them I suppose.
Exactly.
>So I should try to trust that people will communicate grievances with me, without necessarily leading to major social fallout?
Yes. You can even speak that fact openly if you feel the need to have it reinforced. The subtleties come into play when dealing with office politics or crap like that but as far as I'm concerned you are right now dealing with getting a foot in the door. There is no reason not to play with open cards in your current situation, you haven't even been dealt a hand yet.
>So, just try to reframe things more positively or constructively in a more practical sense?
Yes. Reframe things you can positively, guide self criticism to things that actually get in your way, things like that.
>Thank you, Siganon, I am rooting for you as well :)
Much appreciated. <3
>I'm dragging my feet on completing my driver's theory stuff online
Well, let's set a realistic date for you to do it, a schedule. A concrete time to get it out of the way.
>There's more but it's getting late, so I can only give a few examples.
We can revisit whenever.~
>Right now I'm trying to compile all the major updates so I can post all those details in the thread down the line but holy shit is it a lot to summarise.
Thank you for taking the time, not just to do that but also to rest and recuperate when you need it.
>>41008195
This needs a bit of context, Anon..
>>41006059
People already gave some good pointers but I am keeping a close eye on this. I agree the most urgent thing rn is to know if you are the hoarder, or if the hoarder still lives with you.