>>518979325
my sister just called me last night pretending to make it a caring, loving call. but really the entire 3 hour phone call was her trying to invalidate anything i told her about my life (since i never tell my family anything because they do shit like this where they tear down and sabotage anything and everything). she would never have said anything like this, even in general statements, unless she knew that it was invalidating to me.
fortunately, i don't validate my life based on anything women say and even family. eeeeeeeeeeevery family member i have that gains any level of trust is always trying to abuse the trust to destroy something in my life. i have watched 2 family members start succeeding. one of them finds out the other is doing well and ABANDONS THEIR OWN PATH OF SUCCESS and spends all their newly earned resources or even newfound social connections to target and sabotage the other family member. they will bankrupt themselves to do it and wipe out everything they have. i have no idea how or why a cycle like this gets started, but i have no trustworthy family members; not my mom, dad or siblings.
the last time i saw my little brother was the day he robbed me and stole my credit card when i was sleeping, and the only reason he was with me was because he was turning 18 and i was helping him get his ID so he could go file paperwork to get his disability. both of my sisters have slandered my name to no end just making up story after story for 12 straight years even though i didn't even talk to them for most of that time. my mom treated me like shit when i was a kid. pretty much anything and everything you can image besides sexual stuff. my dad has gotten in these really strange mindsets where he was stealing from me, trying to irritate me to the point where i could even think straight, and he was living with me because he'd have been homeless otherwise. especially since he'd been kicked out of 3 homeless shelters already for being disruptive.