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>She has the full right to say no and leave at any time, though.
Not if you brainwashed her into thinking you are the only thing her future ought to revolve around.
>your duty to educate her about life and assist her in growing up
This is called grooming. Criminal psychologists understand this behavior as grooming. There is no equivalent to this in normal relationships between adults. You're literally advocating for raising a child just so that it can be prepared to be your "spouse."
>How do the fatties in the pub know that you have good intentions when all they have to go on is your word?
It's hook-up culture. We're adults at an establishment that serves alcohol. We each have enough life experience to know what we want out of each other. You, on the other hand, want to brainwash a child until you have created your own perfect "wife" through your manipulation. You're sick