Are you a guy? Most guys have unreasonable expectations for a gf/wife. Women do not have a "caregiver" mindset and expecting any kind of sympathy when you're sick or otherwise feeling bad is not going to happen and will only worsen the relationship. Why do you think so many relationships break down when the guy loses his job or gets cancer?

You are a pack animal, a wallet, and cannon fodder. Those are your social roles. If you want a caregiver, you have to literally hire one. Get this through your head now because life is going to be one huge disappointment if you're expecting better as a man.

tl;dr man the fuck up