>>58200373
This >>58200387 most of the time.
The idea they're only ever in conflict comes from how canon mostly gives you brief snapshots into their lives, and most of those snapshots happen to involve both them arguing and also apocalyptic events
>RS arc is only 80 days long, and they've only just met
>Emerald arc is only 1 week long, they're getting along fine
>ORAS arc is only 10 days long, where their suppressed drama implodes then gets resolved
They've been together for 4 years and most of that happened offscreen. Also the fact they have completely opposite careers/work locations means they're not even spending all their waking hours with each other anyway, which reduces conflict by the time they come home. Meanwhile Wallace/Winona being coworkers destroyed their relationship.