guess i'll talk to you babe. would like to see you clean up your language some more still. you're using less slurs in anger, but you're still using them. and i know nearly everyone here does it, but i don't want to see you do it anymore. n***** and f***** are not acceptable pronouns. it's not right to call people j****. i used to cuss myself, used to think it wasn't a big deal, but i read the book of proverbs and over and over it says to have pure speech
"Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee." 4:24
i had to think on that for a while, i grew up in california after all and south park was probably the most popular media for my generation, and that celebrated and encouraged cussing, not to mention the music and movies and so many other things that glorify foulness. but eventually it began to make sense to me. using foul language fouls your mind and heart. it's impossible to think of good and righteous things while you're using it. and of course i make mistakes, the other day in traffic, when i play cards, but it's surprisingly easy to curb foul language, especially in text. and more importantly it prevents you from being honest with yourself. if you're constantly excusing that sin, it makes it easier to excuse far worse things, it really is a slippery slope, and it numbs you to what's wrong and evil. once you stop too you'll notice things about people who use it, how angry and negative they tend to be. and remember god sees everything, knows your thoughts and heart, in a sense we're always praying whether we mean to or not. so please think about your language, stop using it as a weapon, that's not what it's meant for, it's to share your thoughts with others, and if those thoughts aren't positive they probably aren't worth sharing. love you and have a good day.