>>24599351
One of the things that make me puke at the thought of trying to reintroduce myself into society, is that people are generally liars. What do you think is the impact of telling someone you never met, you don't know nothing about, that you love them? Words are cheap. I guess it's my fault for neglecting to stress that, on top of being unconditional and up-front, love has to be GENUINE. Imagine thinking you can compensate for completely lacking maternal love throughout formative years by saying a few empty words. Reminds me of that roman soldier who gave a dying Jesus on the cross some wine, like it's going to make him feel better.

>>24599358
It must be recognized that there are situations in life which are tragic and unescapable. As a reducto ad absurdium, there are children in Gaza who have been alive for just a few seconds before a bomb has dropped right on top of the hospital. Would you tell them that it's their fault for dying, because they haven't done anything to improve their situation?

The correct behavior towards someone who has been severy abused emotionally (or in any other way) as a child, is pure, selfless, unconditional compassion, the kind of compassion received by a scared, abused dog. But that never happens - for human males there are only demands, demands, demands.

People who, for whatever reason, lost all their money can in many cases receive some kind of hardship allowance, so that, in principle, they can use that to dig themselves out of a hole. But there is no "emotional allowance", unless you are dog, or in some cases, a woman.