>>33607203
Yes. Process:

>Either go build a bankroll, or get right with yourself on how you feel about cash
you don't need to flash your money, and don't waste too much of it throwing it at new people, but you need to be knowing in your heart and emotionally feeling
>if either of us wants taquitos and tequila shots, I don't give a fuck, either it's a hard no or an instant yes for reasons independent of resources
>but I lack for nothing I want.
because that lack of fear and "don't give a fuck" is immediately apparent in your every reaction on a date. She's watching how you think about money and resources, and interactions that pattern match to 'poor' are a turnoff. You don't even fucking need the money, it's all how you carry yourself.

>go do shit
just meet people and do things, nothing happens on your computer that's ever gonna get you laid. I'm out in oregon so I used to go to a local rec center any time they held events or the local park was doing anything or had any public music, which it sometimes did. any time I saw something i found funny or a person I'd want to interact with, I'd do it. midsommar? hell yeah I'm gonna tell the hippie chick I like her cow nose thing with prongs on its prongs and ask her if it hurt when they put it in, then smoke up with her on her blanket while her dachsund licks my ear. shitty local band? hell yeah i'm gonna get blasted on modelos and ask the fishmonger on a unicycle if he'd be down to teach a drunken idiot for a few minutes about fish and unicycles, now I fish with him sometimes. you have a smartphone in your pocket, take some pics doing cool shit, now you've got a cool dating profile too. ez

>stop being a retard
you do this by example, watch dating shows to learn. recent good one was better late than single, they took a bunch of korean incels, gave them glow-up makeovers and training for dates, and then they do weird, low-status social retard things that ruin everything. choose to not be retarded like them or the losers.