If you wanted to make a lesbian space that was accepting of trans women, but also wanted to prevent it from getting hammered by 0-years-on-hrt validation seeking weirdos who look and act like men (and generally wanted to prevent transition-related discussion beyond the level that any other life difficulty would be talked about) how would you go about it?

My inclination is to use exclusively vibes-based moderation with no hard rules and no explicit acceptance criteria. I'm tired of lesbian spaces either being like literal nazi dens or including anyone under the sun and full of creepy weirdos.