>>33522826
It sounds like you’re going through a depression, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing. I’m a 40 yo man and I have found that socializing needs to be goal-oriented. No one really has the luxury to shoot the shit, so it makes conversation seem less vital unless you do it intentionally. For women, the analog tends to be about the welfare of your friend group. If yours is crap or you’re not getting a reciprocal response, this “boredom” is just your body saying, “why should I even waste energy in these losers?”
My advice is that if you reorient your goals, you’ll discover a new purpose. Depression usually is rooted in a lack of purpose or fear of choosing one, but know this: if you don’t find a purpose, one will be assigned to you regardless.
This sounds ominous but it’s true.
