I'm autismo woman and I generally agree but here is one weird thing that I also had to face.
So apparently amongst neurotypicals infodumping and ranting is just seen as rude. Like that you are dragging conversation over to yourself. When as autists talking about my own experiences and thoughts is just a way to relate to others and an attempt to bond.
So I just find it weird as fuck that pointing out how I get their situation and why is more rude than just giving cookie cutter "yeah that sucks man" or "OK cool" .
It may just be that the way neurotypicals communicate that is inherently boring and soulless. I haven't ever had interesting convos with men irl either. But on the internet it's mostly men who are captivating. Which may also be because there are more assburger males in general and they congregate on the web.