Thread 82104931

why are most women so boring?
>no effort in conversations
>dismiss any topic they don't know or they don't understand
>never start conversations
the fun part is, even women complain most women are boring, mean or just wait for someone else to entertain them. most fembots i talked to actually can't make friends with other women because they keep ghosting each other

because women are coddled parasites that thrive off the gynocentric delusion that "powerful males should do things for them" despite not believing in gender roles. fuck them.

>>82104931 (OP)
yeah it's pretty frustrating, I have a friend (girl) that I would like to talk to more often but talking to her can get pretty tedious she only gives me like one word replies, I can only get her to talk when it's about games she hates or games she really really likes

>>82104931 (OP)
i don't know how to be interesting because i have no interests and i have very bad social skills

>>82104931 (OP)
Have you ever considered that they just don't want to talk to you?

>>82104956
Do you even realize you're getting loosh farmed? Do you realize that woman you think you cherish, went through all of life by consuming loosh from slavebrained cattle like a parasite?
What if I told you you're just a faceless contestant standing in a line of 400 other faceless contestants?

>>82104979
Biggest cope that just won't die.
Women don't talk because they are incapable of doing it. They simply don't have the brain capacity to be interesting or engaging whenever they speak.

>>82104931 (OP)
>no effort in conversations
>never start conversations

It's because you're not Chad. If you were physically attractive, women would be eager to start conversations and carry said conversations with you.

>>82105019
That's not even remotely true. Women will just fake laugh at whatever Chad says. That's hardly in the realm of "effort".

>>82104931 (OP)
IKR. They are inherently passive.
Yet they won't fuck us, so there is no point in dealing with them.

>>82104995
hm? oh I'm not trying to make her my gf (she's older than me) she was the one that started talking to me first and we have similar taste in games so it's fun to talk to her when I do get her to talk but I'm not trying to make her my gf nah that would be too much effort and I'm not interested

>>82104931 (OP)
Sounds like she wants nothing to do with you

>>82104931 (OP)
This is just normies not only women.

>>82104956
one word replies are so frustrating. i am sorry this happens to you
>>82104964
like it doesnt matter if you sound awkward or something, but at the very least you could give it a shot
>>82104979
>>82105019
>>82105185
did you read this part?
>most fembots i talked to actually can't make friends with other women because they keep ghosting each other
they just want to be entertained and do absolutely nothing for it. it doesn't matter if it's me, you, or anyone else. that's not the point, but you prefer to just say reeeeeee op must be boring
>>82105070
i dont know, i realize some girls can be nice, even if they are not good at talking, like if you want to be friends all you need to do is to be nice. i dont talk to women on 4chan to fuck them

I'm autismo woman and I generally agree but here is one weird thing that I also had to face.
So apparently amongst neurotypicals infodumping and ranting is just seen as rude. Like that you are dragging conversation over to yourself. When as autists talking about my own experiences and thoughts is just a way to relate to others and an attempt to bond.
So I just find it weird as fuck that pointing out how I get their situation and why is more rude than just giving cookie cutter "yeah that sucks man" or "OK cool" .
It may just be that the way neurotypicals communicate that is inherently boring and soulless. I haven't ever had interesting convos with men irl either. But on the internet it's mostly men who are captivating. Which may also be because there are more assburger males in general and they congregate on the web.

>>82105268
yeah, neurotypicals behave differently. they kinda prefer short lived interactions, sending a meme, asking superficial questions. that is just the way they are. if you talk too much, they start giving you the cold shoulder.
i really enjoy when people infodump me about their interests, because i am used to doing all the talking. and they usually seem thrilled to do so

>>82104956
I have a bitch that takes Hours To respond and when she does it's like low effort shit that's hard to make work.

>Can't even get to fren stage because you type so eclectically you give people uncanny valley ick and get accused of being a tranny, a bot, or you just plain intimidate people because they think you would think they're boring in comparison
I've bretty-decent-conversationalistmaxxed my way too close to the sun

Even when I nestle in comfy somewhere for a minute, people start to attack my "I don't have much time right now so I'll shitpost quick to keep in touch" posts and I can't look at them the same when they're talking to the rest of mes unbeknowst like everything is fine knowing they could be so rude to someone they felt they could step on while sucking up to the facet of the me they know as that facet. I'd rather be lonely than have people genuinely be incapable of seeing and taking me for every part, every day's shifting and morphing sense of humor or energy level.

It's strange to see people play favorites (and most hated) with parts of you they think are separate wholes belonging to others

>>82104931 (OP)
>why are most people so boring?
>>no effort in conversations
>>dismiss any topic they don't know or they don't understand
>>never start conversations
>the fun part is, even people complain most people are boring, mean or just wait for someone else to entertain them. most anons i talked to actually can't make friends with other people because they keep ghosting each other
brutal truth edit

>>82105226
>one word replies are so frustrating. i am sorry this happens to you
yeah it's frustrating but I mean I don't get it, she's the one that started talking to me first.
>>82105301
what I don't get is that she unfriended me and I was like oh that sucks oh well, but then she sent me another friend request and later on she did it again wtf? is it a woman thing or an autism thing?

>>82105306
more like
lil "uncanny valley" ack
>captcha: dadad

>>82105306
i don't think typing eclectically is a bad thing.
do you think people can recognize you, given your rather uncommon way with words?
>>82105312
>she's the one that started talking to me first.
i would give it 3 tries, if she keeps being dry then you should tell her to go take a hike

>>82105306
Expression complexity isn't that much of a factor. Someone thinks they're low compatibility with you - they filter out. That's it. This is beyond how much you like to play with words to express what's on your mind more accurately

>>82105334
>i would give it 3 tries, if she keeps being dry then you should tell her to go take a hike
oh don't worry I stopped putting effort into talking to her, I talk to her like once every week or two show her a meme or something and then just ghost her, sometimes she ghosts me but whatever

>>82104931 (OP)
https://youtube.com/shorts/fq7ZtGbeRGw?si=Xjel8CDJyPAZLQKX

>>82104931 (OP)
all of these are literally because they're not interested in you. just ignore them after this

>>82105306
Because that's not what it was. You leave people on read for weeks and months but will shit post for hours on end. Like bitch go reply to my dm I poured my heart and soul into.

>>82105366
>>82105306
terminally online retards moment

>>82105379
Ehhhhh where do you think you are kettle?

>>82105346
sounds nice. give your time to those who deserve it :)

>>82104931 (OP)
>"straightforward" women are dumb simpletons
>"smart" women are over-educated hubristic faggots
The male burden.

>>82105386
noted anon! ^_^

>>82104931 (OP)
They have 0 ambition because everyone does everything for them so they just do what their feelings and instincts want them to.

I'm uncharismatic and super shy

>>82105334
Historically they seem to think because the recognizable posts are so recognizable, they're recognizing me 100% of the time for recognizing 100% of those posts. People with a vendetta or a tsundere obsession toward me will of course, conveniently, only attribute posts that fit their narrative of me towards me, while being either psychologically predisposed to ignore the ones that would challenge that narrative or ignoring them purposefully while trying to induct others into believing only the posts they don't like are mine (even when sometimes they aren't just doing the "I'll only choose to see this side of you" thing but attributing posts to me that really aren't mine from posters who really do suck).

>>82105337
It's fair to say there's not always a "because" to it, but those instances don't need venting about. Those circumstances don't elicit any difficult emotions, but that's why I'm talking about the specific and unfortunate instances where something that doesn't need to be a barrier to connection still ends up as one.
But also, you don't seem to be making much of an effort to understand what I already said or why, so it doesn't seem wise to continue to elaborate. I'm accustomed and partial to solitude, so it's not a lack of interaction that bothers me most, though it's still worth a mention. But that drifts into another area, so I replied with what chunk of the thing is relatively more relevant to this thread's subject. I'm also being a bit sarcastic, obviously. But I would feel the need to check someone on their egoic misconceptions if I misread their sarcasm as sincerity, too. Not quite right to call it sarcasm, either, but it's not legitimate first world problem tier "I'm too cool and prolific and can't relate to being boring at aaalll, boo hoo".

I wanted to see what sort of response a post like that might get since it so directly challenges OP's feelings/experiences, but I can't in good conscience monopolize discussion around a derailment. The dry texting thing has definitely gotten worse with all the pandemic kids. I'm guessing OP is young and/or messaging zoomers. It's all the laziness/flatness/NPCness/entitlement one already encounters often, plus genuine illiteracy and stunted development/learning disabilities. I think lots of people are just burnt out. It's all the effort they can put in because they're desperate to connect, but they're so jaded or spoiled and dopamine depleted they treat it like a monkey slamming a button for treats instead of the dance that takes effort and care if they want to extract anything from it that doesn't just make both parties hungrier and more disillusioned with intimacy by the end.
Not all boring posters are even boring in real life, they just don't take internet communities seriously either because they're spoiled for interaction and get plenty of novel, stimulating experiences with their normie friends, or they just cannot or do not see the value in articulating any of their more complex thoughts when a "hey sup lol hope youre well damn thats crazy goodnight" suffices.

>>82105366
Medication or verification, Mr. Big Implications.

>>82105379
Yes and no. I operate in extremes. Months of nothing but /out/ings and productive member of society-ing it, then months of /homesweethome/ posting. I'd say it evens out. I'm chronically online by proximity to the pulse even then, not by hours logged, though. When you're raised at the memetic epicenter of the internet you learn to maximize the efficiency of your cultural analysis, participation, whatever.

>>82105565
What kind of verification would suffice?

>>82105541
>Historically they seem to think because the recognizable posts are so recognizable, they're recognizing me 100% of the time
i don't think this thread applies to you at all. you don't really sound like a boring person. the OP was directed to those who don't really want to put any energy into their conversations. in your case, it seems like you're generous with it. i am sorry you haven't been able to make friends. do you have people to talk to?
>>82105536
that's understandable. practice makes perfect

>>82105582
Post a vocaroo slapping yourself three times in the face. Twice on the left, once on the right. I'll be able to reverse verify your biometrics by the acoustics.

>>82105593
If that's who I'm imagining it to be they're not boring at all. Genuinely one of the most entertaining and charming persons on this board. The problem is they will literally not reply to anything for weeks or even months at a time. While you're wondering if you said or did something wrong, they'll be spamming shit posts for hours on end.

>>82105612
if that is the case, then i wonder why... but they posted earlier they don't even get to the friend making stage. it's a bit contradictory

>>82105597
https://voca.ro/1eKN4z5lKR6j

>>82105641
Nah, you're not one of mine. Didn't even have to backtrace the echolocation. No fren of mine would call those weak ass paps slaps.

>>82105593
Well, it applies in the sense that I run into the same problem even if I don't perpetuate it. But when you phrase it that way, "put any energy into", I can qualify as guilty in the sense that when I'm around, I put my all into the conversation. But again, I'm pretty all or nothing. And I don't think I have a desire to change that. I used to feel like it was something I was objectively required to work on, and I felt shame wondering whether it might be the result of trauma from bad experiences in past online friend groups and such, so felt there was also a duty to myself to learn to be more consistent in my online connections. But I think I just have a very specific desire when it comes to online interaction. Other people want to add posters offboard and nurture relationships, regularly participate in a shared server, things like that. I'm not really built for that, but since I relied on that sort of thing to cope with social alienation and isolation when younger, I felt like I was required to still seek out that specific sort of dynamic/community. There are like one or two people I even really want to keep in touch with or get even closer to, but it does make using 4chan in the ways I've used it my whole life difficult. I like my (effective) anonymity. And my autism makes it hard to maintain even irl connections. I don't think I can maintain both online and irl relationships in a way that doesn't just leave me drained and anyone I know well enough to message but not enough to go to the next step of hanging out in person with a friend who is still more... transient than they would like.

>>82105593
I'm just searching for a perfect sweet spot of mutual fulfillment. I wrote my post intentionally inaccurate to my situation on purpose because initially I was going to drop it to feel sufficient catharsis and then just close the thread, but. The replies were pretty sincere and well-formatted so I wanted to back up and clarify a bit to match that sincerity. But I don't want to go on about it too long.
I'm a verbal processor and sometimes even basically already solved or accepted things just require multiple rounds of rumination so I can be reminded, "Wait, I already found my personal resolution to that, it's just difficult to accept." But until I'm put in the position to have to validate or explain my feelings to someone unfamiliar with my situation, yeah, I can forget just how much peace I've made with the thing already. Stokes the gratitude, healthy resignation, whatever the case-by-case may be.

>most fembots i talked to actually can't make friends with other women because they keep ghosting each other
I've noticed that but it's not because we are boring it's because every other woman on here is extremely horny and just wants to meet a chad that lets her say nigger.

>>82105780
You do a voca because you seem awfully similar to someone I'm thinking of. Btw you never told me to use my full force. I don't want to mistakenly kys myself or break any bones if I used too much power.

>>82105805
>just wants to meet a chad that lets her say nigger
keked i must admit

>>82105565
>monkey slamming a button for treats instead of the dance that takes effort and care if they want to extract anything from it
The way you put it, either looks like monkey brain banana fencing.

>>82105541
>But also, you don't seem to be making much of an effort to understand what I already said or why
That's the incompatibility I'm speaking of, either way, in either direction, in either interpretation.

>>82104931 (OP)
>why are most women so boring?
Because they don't have to be interesting in order to attract a mate.

>>82105915
>>82104931 (OP)
>>82105306
I have never met one single interesting woman who liked cool stuff. They're always into boring things like sewing, coloring, reading, and eating candy. They don't have the curiosity to explore the mysteries of the unknown or hidden universe.

You'll never find a woman who understands the intricacies of the human mind or the astronomically loneliness of the universe. They'll never understand the joys of doing puzzles, going on hikes, or even having good taste in anime or manga.

There's a reason women don't like other women so often. Fictional women are amazing though, at least when written by men.

>>82104931 (OP)
>>82104942
>>82104964

women have always been the meme gender. I met a woman that is just like me through and through. The moment we got involved with each other romantically, all her individuality flew out the window. I wanted a life partner not a dog that obeys all my commands and has no thoughts of her own anymore

But it's our duty as men to control and guide women, they are NOT equals

>>82105956
>They'll never understand the joys of doing puzzles, going on hikes, or even having good taste in anime or manga.
These are some of the most female dominated hobbies ever

>>82105956
>boring things like sewing
Sewing is pretty cool though.
>They don't have the curiosity to explore the mysteries of the unknown or hidden universe.
Most people don't.

When people share their dating app conversations I'm also blown away by how minimalistic and soullessly normies speak to each other. I cannot imagine trying to gauge whether I would want to have dinner with someone through such utterly banal DMs.

>>82105805
In my experience, friendship with neurotypical women is usually either impossible or dehumanizing, too. So that may be a problem of "real" fembot VS tourist normie girl relations. Autistic girls are usually fun as hell to message, and normie girls are usually "Hiii babe :)))" "Omg love that for you queen" "Omg I'm soooo sorry :(((" "lol nm hbu" on repeat forever.

>>82105818
Jokes aside, I don't recognize you.
I'm not going to post something I can be identified with when I've been open about the troubles I've had with people taking pleasure in thinking they're good at exposing me. That's just asking for some troll to track me by the vocaroo and make a point to do it whenever they spot me again since I revealed that struggle here. They'll like follow me or some blameless person they think is me around and keep reposting the vocaroo at me to be like "Ayo this you?" thinking they did something. Which would just be mildly annoying if anything since I only care when things fall to shit in spaces I've invested a lot of time in when some jealous, tsuntsun, or just plain miserable seether comes along and causes mess as a cry for attention while somehow trying to call me the disruptive or cancerous one when everyone was minded their business fine before they started to spazz out.

>>82105888
Aw. But banana fencing sounds too cute and fun to be a good comparison.

>>82105956
Ironically very fembrained of you to do the "I don't care about SMALL TALK. I wanna hear about your fears, your dreams, whether you think aliens exist, I want to go DEEP and get WEIRD" thing. Two people can express the same thing but you can tell when it's performative, ungrounded, when they need to get over themselves.
It's always the most basic males and females who hadn't had an original thought or endogenous philosophy inquiry until they smoked weed or came across some mainstream New Age content that's like three decades old news to any actual seekers, thinkers, or weirdos. People like that don't find good conversation because they overestimate their uniqueness and it emanates as a supremely trash vibe. They alienate both normies for thinking they're above them when really they're just more up their own ass, and they alienate legit esoteric or unconventional types by thinking they're special or better than others at all regardless of whether their interests are objectively underground or unusual, because no one wants to enable an asshole's grandiosity whether they're mid or not. The assholery takes precedent for how you have to handle someone like that even if your values and passions align.

>>82106064
>impossible or dehumanizing
Yeah I don't like being the "autistic pet" friend that gets constantly talked down to so I don't have any female friends. I miss my old fembot friend that was obsessed with toontown

>>82106076
I could roll with it if it were a reflection of reality, but it's actual slow descent into madness tier to validate the fragile backwards conceptions of people who are treating you like the one with communication deficits, context clue and social cue issues and whatever when they're a million times worse. Normie communication is disgusting, they all have trust issues because they project their own flaws and can't believe someone would just always mean exactly what they say. I don't entertain doublespeak and they think I'm not picking up on it when really I just won't dignify their inherently passive aggressive, indirect and manipulative communication styles with more doublespeak.
It brings the worst out of me because I don't want to be resentful of differences, but when someone thinks they're like doing you a favor when 99% *you* feel like the babysitter, it's hard not to be like "If anyone deserves to feel superior it's me and if anyone is indebted to anyone it's you since I don't constantly call you on how insecure and inauthentic everything about you is". I don't want to feel like a monster for being forced to acknowledge I'm actually the more emotionally intelligent one compared to someone who believes all the outdated "science" about autistic diagnostic criteria. Definitely a firm believer in the "For us, by us" stuff when it comes to autistic research advances. Normies will always bullshit through a lens of inexperience, bias and projection. Normies should not be allowed to dictate or define autism or the autistic internal experience in the medical/psychological field. They are so painfully just close enough to be dangerously wrong in a way that sounds like it makes enough sense for other normies to go, "Yeah, that's what autism is! That's what autistic people think and feel, and why!"

How did you fall out of touch with your Toontown friend? If it's not painful to recall.

>>82106122
I actively pick up on social retardation of normalfags but I'm not autistic. People do think I'm autistic because I consciously don't entertain their shit tests as they assume they're worth of having the "earned" approval from. It's grim that even anons tend to operate like their "tough love" is worth any damns and is anyhow necessary.

>>82106207
You have Asperger's.

>>82105268
You sure these are neurotypicals you are talking about and not some narcissistic retards with subhuman IQ so that they both think they are better than everyone else but fear it so much that anyone showing any depth is a threat to their illusions of grandeur? I had an autistic retard in class who was so far removed from reality even speaking near him was 'understood' by this faggot that someone wanted to divert attention from him, he just did it more overtly than regular beckies and other brads that had nothing to say but still lashed out when someone had more than five words to say at a moment

>>82104931 (OP)
men are much worse. i've always hung out with women better.

>>82106340
True, at leas women have higher chance of being mediocre in intelligence. Men? They are on average smarter, but median is so much lower that talking to randos is exhausting

>>82106315
Or maybe you relate to the "tough love" retards and defensively try to pathologize my disgust. Who knows anon, who knows.

>>82104995
wtf is loosh

>>82104931 (OP)
They're probably just shy op why not try to fuck them?

>>82104931 (OP)
Because women have never needed to be interesting to succeed in life, so why would they bother?

>>82104931 (OP)
Because they know they don't have to be interesting to get a guy.
A dead giveaway to find out if a woman is lesbian is when she's "too cool". She speaks 3 languages, has a degree in robotics, plays the banjo, has a vtuber career and has a passion for insects...
Yup. Definetly lesbian.
Because the market is harder when you have to go after women

>>82104931 (OP)
You have to invent lies and excuses to get in a boring conversation with them to get some ass.