I don't even care about the cultural crap like castles and temples and whatnot, I just want to go to Tokyo to eat food I can't get in the US, buy my wife some nice quality cosplay lingerie, and maybe try out the hot springs somewhere.
I typically go to Jakarta every few years because that's where my wife is from, though ethnically Chinese. We're going to Lombok next year.
China is on our to-do list, but Japan is going to be first.
