>>23116795
read about the 7 year itch
if you NEED to fuck around, do it FAR AWAY from your friends and family. If paying for it wouldn’t feel the same but you can still pull zoomer pussy, coordinate it with an out of state work trip or at least use tinder in a town
If you don’t look weird around 20-something’s bring nitrous and a whipper to an afterparty and just share them, the girls will come to you (if you bring drinks or party drugs people might think you’re a date raper, people trust whipits). You’ll have nearly free pussy all night.
TLDR: if you fuck around on your wife, use the guilt to make you a better husband and father, if you can twist it into something that helped your marriage go the distance then you can live with yourself just fine as long as you were careful