L-lobby Doko? Please...

>31M
>Good career(stem)
>Six-figures
>Good savings, retirement
>Own condo, and rental-home(no mortgage)
>Healthiest I've ever been, working on padding on muscle, practice disciplined skin-care
>confirm not ugly, received unsolicited compliments from both men and women(nice face, head full of hair)
>Fairly social and outgoing(getting better, still awkward to an extent)
>Have a nice collection of diverse friends I hang with

However,
>Manlet(5'6)
>And worse, Indian-origin, raised in USA
>Virgin, never kissed
>No dating experience
>teens and 20s were a complete shit-show of grinding, depression, anxiety, self-esteem issues, insecurities, hating life and hating myself

If I'm being honest with myself, I still think my best years are ahead of me. I've put alot of work in to grow out of the rut I was in my 20s and I like my trajectory I'm currently on.

I can't 100% rule out never having kids&family.

But I'm aware and accept that the odds are stacked well against me in the dating market.

How do I mentally prepare myself for being involuntarily eternally single and childless? What are some good copes I can tell myself? Some mental tricks to get myself to be ok with it?

I feel like my life would be 100x better if I got over this mental-hurdle.

Also,
>inb4 people say arranged marriage
>Arranged marriage market now is basically insurance for indian women who couldn't lock down chadpreet
>Trust me, I asked these same women themselves