Question for femanons and anons alike,
How far and how much humor is too much?

I’ve been single for almost a year now so I think I’m recovered from my previous relationship and ready to jump back into the dating pool, however, even with my advantage of being female, I am incredibly awkward and a bit spergy. I have often found myself accidentally pushing things too far humor wise. For example, the time I used my 9/11 truther pickup line got me blocked from the guy’s Facebook. Another time a guy on a dating app said “Ask me the crazy questions” so I asked him why Jedi aren’t naked in the afterlife and he immediately unmatched me. Tons of examples abound, but those two are off the top of my head.

I also have the issue of being very weird once I’m aware I like someone. I either avoid them completely while glancing at them secretly, do awkward things, or just outright confess, to mixed results.

I’m dreading getting back on the apps, because fuck me how else are you supposed to meet people? Anyways, any advice on how to help a long time 4chan female figure it out would be much appreciated. Thanks.