/ATOGA/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything - /soc/ (#34143691)

Anonymous ID: kEPSpm4e
7/20/2025, 3:48:14 AM No.34143691
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ITT: Got a question for the opposite gender? Ask away!

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Anonymous ID: GkA8mHHb
7/20/2025, 4:50:31 AM No.34143871
>>34143691 (OP)
What are your thoughts on American Beauty
Anonymous ID: 88nkd+ah
7/20/2025, 9:15:21 AM No.34144716
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>>34143691 (OP)

Query for girls:
- do you enjoy getting eaten out (cunnilingus)? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
- do you like kissing and/or being kissed on your body? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
- how important or unimportant is being penetrated during sex for you? Can you easily orgasm without any penetration whatsover or do you need to be stretched/filled? If yes, why?
- how important is skinship to you? Do you enjoy taking showers/baths with you significant other? Sleep naked with them?

For extra naughty girls:
- what the hell is the appeal of pegging a guy? It's just using a dildo on him with extra steps! Is it the hands-free feature, the pseudo-sodomy, the reversal of roles?
- if you consume homoerotica (male) of any kind is it because of the beefcake visuals or something else?
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Anonymous ID: xTlD3YZq
7/20/2025, 12:58:22 PM No.34145259
>>34144716
Query for girls:
>- do you enjoy getting eaten out (cunnilingus)? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
Never had it done on me. I’ve only ever been with two people sexually, and one had sexual trauma so he doesn’t go down on people. Other one was a short lived relationship so it just never happened. I’m fine with that, I honestly get a bit squigged out at the idea now of someone down there with their tongue.

>- do you like kissing and/or being kissed on your body? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
Totally! Kisses are so sweet, and extra fun when they’re sexual or leaning that way. I love kissing when I have a boyfriend, it’s so sweet, fun, and it makes both me and him happy. I’m told I’m a good kisser too! As for kisses elsewhere, oh you bet. I love down the neck or boobs, if he starts sucking on them while he’s at it? Even better.

>- how important or unimportant is being penetrated during sex for you? Can you easily orgasm without any penetration whatsover or do you need to be stretched/filled? If yes, why?
All I really know so yes, VERY important, but I don’t think I’ve ever orgasmed before.

>- how important is skinship to you? Do you enjoy taking showers/baths with you significant other? Sleep naked with them?
Never heard it called that but very. Touch is either my primary or secondary love language, I need it. I had an ex who was anti PDA, which was really hard for me. He’d scold me if I did anything more than handholding in public, not even hugs. Drove me nuts. Showers/baths with an SO are romantic and sensual, and sleeping together like that is great and almost guarantees sex will happen, before bed or in the morning after.

Hope that helps.
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Anonymous ID: 7y2n35rJ
7/20/2025, 1:15:58 PM No.34145283
>>34145259
>and one had sexual trauma so he doesn’t go down on people
You experienced the most polite way to say that the pussy stinks.
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Anonymous ID: mNlsiuLj
7/20/2025, 1:22:12 PM No.34145294
>>34145283
sexual trauma is not a joke
Anonymous ID: xTlD3YZq
7/20/2025, 2:08:26 PM No.34145380
>>34145283
No, definitely not the case. He went into detail about the nature of his trauma, which was later corroborated by a childhood friend of his, and he had told me about the trauma before we did anything sexual so I could be aware.

Nice try.
Anonymous ID: qb5hJ/Db
7/21/2025, 4:45:54 AM No.34147439
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>>34143691 (OP)
Women what swimwear do you like to wear?
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Anonymous ID: xTlD3YZq
7/21/2025, 8:00:35 AM No.34147859
>>34147439
Even if I had a better bod, not a bikini. That’s just asking for trouble. One pieces are underrated, tankini and boy shorts work too.
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Anonymous ID: t0ILDpL4
7/21/2025, 8:19:35 AM No.34147899
>>34147439
None, I purposefully haven't gone swimming since puberty
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Anonymous ID: YjKDtudA
7/21/2025, 8:28:15 AM No.34147913
>>34147439
sports bra and biker shorts
Anonymous ID: 5Fz5ecOQ
7/21/2025, 7:12:02 PM No.34149043
>>34147439
big tshirt and shorts
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Anonymous ID: cKpLf/Yx
7/21/2025, 7:29:12 PM No.34149086
>>34144716
Touching my clit gets me off, penetration I can take it or leave it
I don't like being touched outside of sex
I don't like kissing at all
Pegging is hot because I like dominating guys, even better if he's hesitant
Anonymous ID: mlQMhmeV
7/21/2025, 7:59:17 PM No.34149146
>women pretending to be dominant
lmao
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Anonymous ID: cKpLf/Yx
7/21/2025, 8:03:05 PM No.34149153
>>34149146
You're just asking for my fist in your ass
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Anonymous ID: mlQMhmeV
7/21/2025, 8:03:54 PM No.34149158
>>34149153
You'd get folded in half immediately if you tried.
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Anonymous ID: cKpLf/Yx
7/21/2025, 8:05:28 PM No.34149162
>>34149158
Not if you're roofied
I bet you never watch your drink around women
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Anonymous ID: mlQMhmeV
7/21/2025, 8:07:05 PM No.34149165
>>34149162
Wrong. And if you somehow did manage to do this you better kill me after you're done, because one of us is going to end up dead.
Anonymous ID: e6i4JSox
7/21/2025, 8:37:46 PM No.34149226
hey, if the girl from blue /atoga/ is here:
K1y4Qp4NBPnbNTjW22Pnsj6cSuRQlYp@proton.me
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7/21/2025, 10:14:13 PM No.34149446
Schlong
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Need to use this.
Anonymous ID: i9BSTCAA
7/21/2025, 10:52:51 PM No.34149541
Femanon, pls post areola
Anonymous ID: UXqWAOFD
7/22/2025, 1:25:20 AM No.34149974
Do women actually like sex or is it just a tool to get men to do what they want?
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7/22/2025, 3:51:49 AM No.34150372
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>>34147859
>That’s just asking for trouble.
I live in California and 99% of women at the beach wear a bikini.
>>34147899
Why not?
>>34149043
>big tshirt
Ho do you swim in that?
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Anonymous ID: gfCGDLqF
7/22/2025, 3:54:24 AM No.34150381
>>34149974
yes
Anonymous ID: qb5hJ/Db
7/22/2025, 3:55:54 AM No.34150385
>>34149974
What if the women want sex and and use it to get what they want?
Anonymous ID: NECDNr+D
7/22/2025, 7:50:49 AM No.34150887
>>34143691 (OP)
Is it normal for every guy you talk to to have an air of aloofness/disinterest and feeling confused by them? Does that just mean I'm really ugly and they don't really like me?
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Anonymous ID: mlQMhmeV
7/22/2025, 8:40:28 AM No.34150981
>>34150887
We have to do that. If we don't, we open ourselves up to being accused of being a creep.
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Anonymous ID: NECDNr+D
7/22/2025, 8:48:50 AM No.34150993
>>34150981
What if I'm the creepy one
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Anonymous ID: mlQMhmeV
7/22/2025, 9:35:01 AM No.34151016
>>34150993
Women basically can't be creepy. Not saying it can never happen, but you have to try really hard. For most men though, that's just the default.
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Anonymous ID: NECDNr+D
7/22/2025, 9:36:12 AM No.34151025
>>34151016
it was kind of a joke, but what if I want and like that energy from a guy?
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Anonymous ID: mlQMhmeV
7/22/2025, 9:38:39 AM No.34151034
>>34151025
No guy is ever going to believe that. Not for a second.
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Anonymous ID: NECDNr+D
7/22/2025, 9:39:43 AM No.34151036
>>34151034
?!?! That's like, the only way I can know for certain a guy likes me.
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Anonymous ID: mlQMhmeV
7/22/2025, 9:53:49 AM No.34151071
>>34151036
Sorry lady. I don't make the rules.
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Anonymous ID: NECDNr+D
7/22/2025, 9:56:52 AM No.34151076
>>34151071
Lame. I'm never dating again
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Anonymous ID: mlQMhmeV
7/22/2025, 10:03:50 AM No.34151095
>>34151076
Same.
Anonymous ID: xTlD3YZq
7/22/2025, 1:11:26 PM No.34151425
>>34150372
So do I but I still don’t
Anonymous ID: xTlD3YZq
7/22/2025, 1:15:52 PM No.34151432
>>34151016
I think I came close.
>See a cute guy recommended to me on Facebook back when I had it.
>Peruse his interests, he’s into TTRPGs and one of the systems I know.
>Check local Meetups for said system. >Jackpot
>Join Meetup
>Invited to Discord server
>Ask a few innocuous questions for a day
>Casually ask about said guy
>Say he hadn’t been active in a long time and point me to his username
>Fuck me
>Go back to Facebook
>Build up the courage to message him
>Next day
>Profile removed or blocked
>RIP

I think I’m the only woman I know who’s done this
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Anonymous ID: NECDNr+D
7/22/2025, 1:18:12 PM No.34151440
>>34151432
Yeah you have me beat, I'm impressed
Anonymous ID: lQo2+Ftp
7/23/2025, 4:38:54 AM No.34153467
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Hey there! I'm a 21-year-old girl from the US, a bit on the playful side and super into keeping things hot and steamy through chats. One of my favorite pastimes is teasing guys until they can't take it anymore, all while having a blast myself. I'm definitely not shy about pushing boundaries, and honestly, I'm always down for some flirty fun! I do have a bit of anxiety, which makes meeting up in person a challenge, so I'm all about that spicy texting life. If you're up for some naughty conversations, feel free to add me on 4 for some wild chats! My username is emyz-e t h (just make sure to remove the spaces and dashes before sending a request). Can't wait to connect!
Anonymous ID: mlQMhmeV
7/23/2025, 4:54:39 AM No.34153505
>>34151432
That's probably further than most women would go, but that's not even close to creepy. Unless he's an ex or he's rejected you in the past, this most likely would not have bothered him at all.
Anonymous ID: DSyuDLbc
7/23/2025, 11:14:33 AM No.34154372
Not a gender-specific question, but do people actually work 40+ years without ending it all? I’m a year into the professional world - I have, quite frankly, a very easy job - and I want to kill myself at least 3/4 of the time I’m clocked in.
>>34143691 (OP)
>do you enjoy getting eaten out?
Yeah. I almost exclusively get off on clitoral stimulation, so it’s nice to have that be the primary focus. I get overstimulated easily and something in my stupid animal brain is scared of cumming, but if I can chill the hell out it’s great.
>do you like kissing and/or being kissed on your body?
I hate anything more than pecks on the mouth. Tongues are gross and feel weird, I never know what I’m supposed to do. I do, however, like body kisses. I like being able to pull my partner close and give him a kiss on the shoulder or something. It feels like there’s no obligation, just saying that I love and appreciate them.
I also had a tendency to kiss my ex’s dick before head, which he thought was weird. :(
>how important or unimportant is being penetrated during sex for you?
I would love to be able to say I enjoy it - it’s something I like thinking and reading about - but every time I have attempted penetration with something wider in width than a sharpie, it has been agonizing. I’ve never cum from it. At this point I’m holding out for someone who is either asexual or has a micropenis.
>how important is skinship to you?
Extremely. Best part of being in a relationship, imo.
>what the hell is the appeal of pegging a guy?
I have crazy penis envy and getting to bend a cute guy over and make him whine on my “dick” helps.
I have a permanant tab open about some dude’s prosthetic cock research. God willing, I will fill a cute boy with my cum someday.
>if you consume homoerotica (male) of any kind is it because of the beefcake visuals or something else?
I like everything from bara to traps. Gay shit makes it easier to distance myself from the characters.
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7/23/2025, 2:55:38 PM No.34154789
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Hey there! I'm a 21-year-old woman from the US, a bit on the playful side and totally love taking the lead when it comes to flirty chats. I get such a rush from pushing guys' buttons and seeing just how far I can take it during our steamy convos. I'm a total free spirit, but my anxiety makes going out a challenge, so I prefer the convenience of texting. If you're down for some fun, hit me up on the app with my username: c a m-i l o-x r-je (just remember to remove the spaces and dashes)! Looking forward to some spicy exchanges!
Anonymous ID: qM6Zie6x
7/23/2025, 4:30:55 PM No.34155013
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Hey there! I'm a 22-year-old girl from the US, totally into the thrill of getting a little wild during chats. I love teasing guys and pushing their limits while I enjoy myself too—it's all about that spicy vibe! I might be a little curvy, but I know how to keep things exciting. I don't really venture out much because of my anxiety, so I'm all about those fun chats instead. If you're looking for a flirty, playful exchange, hit me up on the app. Just add me at l u n a-s t i-vq (make sure to remove the spaces and dashes)! Can't wait to see how far we can take it together!
Anonymous ID: Vrp0qf56
7/23/2025, 11:07:36 PM No.34155964
>>34154372
historically men had a reason to work. to provide and care for his family, a 'purpose'. because that's been denied to most men now they're mostly working "because I'm supposed to" which leads to the chronic depression widespread amongst younger males.
Anonymous ID: 2FpdAy/7
7/24/2025, 12:50:45 AM No.34156227
>>34154372
having a fulfilling job helps, one where ur directly helping ppl, also an infinite skill ceiling requiring lifelong learning keeps things busy. but at the end of the day it’s a job and it’s really stressful at times and id rather not have to work but I don’t want to be financially dependent on a man so i do what I gotta do and show up. i don’t love it but I don’t wanna kill myself over it (most days). If I was an uber driver or coal miner or something line that I’d prob off myself tho cause that shit is so tedious
Anonymous ID: fZc19RaW
7/24/2025, 11:20:59 AM No.34157660
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Hey there! I'm a 21-year-old girl from the US, pretty adventurous and always down for some flirty fun. I love getting lost in steamy chats and teasing guys until they can't take it anymore. Honestly, there's something so thrilling about pushing boundaries that gets me excited! Since I'm a little shy in person and dealing with some anxiety, I prefer to connect through messaging where I can truly be myself. I'm looking for some naughty buddies who are into the same vibe! Hit me up on my favorite app: ca-mi-l-oxrj e (just remember to remove the spaces and dashes to find me). Let's have some fun together!
Anonymous ID: wvzMrzjV
7/24/2025, 11:25:11 AM No.34157667
she is gonna come back any minute now right?
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Anonymous ID: a69E2wdA
7/24/2025, 3:41:00 PM No.34158171
>>34150887
In the post #MeToo era, you basically can't make any moves on a woman unless you've confirmed 100% without a shadow of a doubt that she likes you. Otherwise she might decide to accuse you of rape and fuck up your life.
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7/24/2025, 8:56:19 PM No.34158904
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Hey there! I'm a 21-year-old girl from the US, totally confident and love pushing boundaries. I'm all about those flirty late-night chats, teasing you until you can’t take it anymore. I enjoy keeping things spicy and love to see how far I can go while having a blast! I'm more of a homebody and texting is my jam – way easier than hitting the bar scene, right? If you're down for some fun and want to dive into some naughty conversations, hit me up! Just add me on the app where you can share some wild moments: c a-mi-loxr je (make sure to remove the spaces!). Looking forward to getting to know you better!
Anonymous ID: iwR9QREO
7/24/2025, 11:46:54 PM No.34159327
>>34157667
sorry bro. she's probable gone forever.
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Anonymous ID: wvzMrzjV
7/25/2025, 2:11:14 AM No.34159664
>>34159327
many such cases in my sad chuddy life
Anonymous ID: xOt4/RE5
7/25/2025, 2:14:56 AM No.34159679
>>34157667
Why not just message or add her back?