Femanons:
I was on a first date with a girl and we were holding hands on a park bench. She went to rest her head on my shoulder but then stopped herself. I wanted to make a cute comment that she could rest her head there but wasn't sure if it was like rude to point it out. If I had said "No, it's ok. You can put your head there." Would that have been ok? I want to preface this is less of "I'm overthinking about this girl" and more "I'm autistic and don't know if socially that is acceptable on a date."